Boosting Confidence: Fun Daily Practices for Tween Girls

We know that helping your child build self-confidence is a top priority. And we're here to tell you that it doesn't have to be complicated or time-consuming. In fact, confidence-boosting practices can be fun, creative, and integrated into your daily routine. We'll share with you some engaging activities that you and your tween can do together, all while fostering self-assurance and strong family bonds.

Boosting Confidence with Daily Affirmations

I discovered a unique and fun way to weave positive thinking into my life. I noticed recurring numbers on the clock—those fascinating synchronicities like 11:11 or 1:23. You might have heard them referred to as "angel numbers" but call them what you want, many of us notice them often. Since I have a hard time sticking to routines I started using these moments as a chance to work in my affirmations.

With short and sweet positive affirmations saved from TikTok, each lasting only 10 seconds to a minute, I harnessed the magic of these synchronicities. Every time I saw one of those special numbers on the clock, I'd pull up a my affirmation videos. In no time, my focus shifted from dwelling on the negatives to embracing the positives in my life.

The Magic of Affirmations

Affirmations are like little power nuggets for your brain. When you repeat positive affirmations, it's like planting seeds of optimism in your mind. These tiny sentences hold the potential to shape your child's self-esteem and outlook on life.

"I am capable of anything I set my mind to." 

This affirmation is an excellent example of what your tween can use. Just a simple sentence, yet it carries so much power. Encourage them to recite this daily or whenever they need a little boost.

"I am confident and strong." 

Here's another gem to add to the list. Your tween can use this affirmation when tackling challenges or facing self-doubt.

Family Fun Time: Affirmation Creation

Encourage your child to think about what makes them feel confident and happy. Maybe it's being brave, smart, or kind. Create affirmations based on these qualities. Then, make it a daily ritual to say these affirmations aloud.

"I am brave and can face any challenge."

"I am smart and always learning."

"I am kind and make the world a better place."

Remember, consistency is key. The more your child says these affirmations, the more they become ingrained in their self-image.

*Tip: Use a dry erase marker to write your child's affirmation on their bathroom mirror

Daily Affirmation Jar

Get creative and craft an affirmation jar. Write different affirmations on colorful paper slips and place them in the jar. Every morning or before bedtime, your tween can pick a slip and recite the affirmation. It adds an element of surprise and excitement to their routine.

To make your Daily Affirmation Jar complete, we've compiled a set of printable affirmation cards. This pack includes 16 cards with positive messages and 8 blank cards, so your tween can write their own affirmations. The blank cards are great for letting kids express what's important to them, making the experience personal and fun. These printables are easy to use: just print, cut out the cards, and add them to your jar. It's a simple way to help your tween start or end their day with a positive thought. Find the printable in our resources using this link!

Celebration Wall

Designate a special area in your home as a "Celebration Wall." Here, you and your tween can celebrate small victories, positive moments, and affirmations that resonate with them. When your child accomplishes something they're proud of or wants to highlight, write it down on a colorful card and place it on the wall. It's a visual reminder of their strengths and achievements.

Family Reflection Time

Wrap up the day with a family reflection. Share what made you feel confident, happy, or proud during the day. This practice encourages open discussions and positive thinking. Plus, it strengthens the family bond.

Building self-confidence doesn't have to be a daunting task. With small creative daily practices and the power of affirmations, your tween can grow into a confident and resilient individual. Together, you're creating a nurturing environment that empowers your child to be their best self.