
💌 Welcome to Letters to Her
This is a place where your story can become someone else’s survival guide.
Soon Letters to Her will blossom into a living, growing archive of anonymous letters—each one written by a woman who has walked through something hard, and who wants to leave a light behind for someone else still finding their way.
Maybe you’ve been through something that changed you.
Maybe you’ve healed—or maybe you’re still in it, but far enough along to look back and say:
"This is what helped me keep going."
If you’re here, someone probably thinks you have something worth sharing.
And they’re right.
✨ Why This Exists
So many women carry their stories quietly—stories of loss, recovery, heartbreak, growth, starting over, or finding strength they didn’t know they had. And so many other women are going through those same things, feeling completely alone.
We created Letters to Her to connect those stories.
To say:
“You are not the only one.”
“Here’s what helped me.”
“You’re going to get through this.”
These letters don’t need to be long or perfect. They don’t need credentials or the right language. They just need your truth, shared in kindness, and shaped with care.

How it works
You write a letter—anonymously or signed however you like.
You choose who the letter is for:
a teen girl, a new mom, someone facing grief, someone just like the you of five years ago.
We review each submission to ensure it’s safe, appropriate, and up-lifting.
Approved letters will be added to our searchable library, where women can find the words they need, exactly when they need them.
You don’t need to be a writer. You just need to be someone who’s been through something—and wants to help someone else through it, too.
(You’ll be redirected to a simple form. No login or personal info required.)
Ready to Write?
Right now, this project is just beginning. That means there are women out there who could benefit from hearing exactly what you’ve lived—but until letters are submitted, the shelves are empty.
Your voice could be the first one someone hears after a bad diagnosis, a breakup, a betrayal, or a loss.
It could be the thing that makes her feel seen.
And it might just help you, too.
Sometimes writing the letter we wish we’d received is the first step toward healing what we didn’t get.
You can share as much or as little as you’d like. Letters can be short, sweet, or softly honest.
You can write to someone specific (e.g., “To the woman leaving her marriage”) or keep it general.
And you can sign it however feels right to you: a nickname, initials, or simply “Someone who understands.”
There’s no right way...just your way.